‘Meaning’ Archive

Bullies BE Gone (and Thank You for Coming) June 23, 2010 No Comments

It’s all about animal instinct. My one-year old dog, Rocco, has been reminding me of this lately. When I hear him bark at a foreign noise in the stairwell – or when he has to pee atop another dog’s urine, as if to signify, “I am here, I am best.”
It reminds me of bullies, those [...]

Suggestions for Being Led to Your Mission March 3, 2010 No Comments

➢ Use your VIA Strengths (measure them free by clicking here) to build energy and create momentum for how you be in the world. If you’re high on gratitutde for example, find innovative ways to use your gratitude, express your gratitude, be your gratitude. This will fuel your fire.
➢ Try not to let the pressure of time [...]

Clearing space: To DO or to BE February 19, 2010 1 Comment

We live in a world of doing, of checklists, of go, go, go. Especially in New York city where I live, people are running all the time: the city that never sleeps. Work, gym, dinner, party, work, sleep. It’s so easy to get caught up by this energy, but is it all so good?

As [...]

Take me to Pandora, or the Positive Psychology of Avatar January 29, 2010 No Comments

Read my most recent article published today on Positive Psychology News Daily. Click here.

11/11: Angel Time! November 11, 2009 No Comments

Ahemmm . . . How are you?
I am so super grateful:
I write this as I head to two places: (1) to my high school alma mater, where I’m meeting with students to talk about the application of Positive Psychology in the band, a group I was a part of 15 years ago, when I was [...]

A Super-Easy Positive Intervention October 28, 2009 2 Comments

Aim: To become more mindful of everyday language, to create meaning.
Point: What we know of positive psychology is that other people matter. <roll eyes here>. Certainly, these words have been overused so much so, they’re becoming empty. Other words we use are empty, too. For example, when someone asks, “How are you?” answers like “fine” [...]

Positive Place: In presence of the Dalai Lama October 14, 2009 No Comments

Last week I had the great fortune of being with the Dalai Lama three days in two cities. The second of these visits brought me to Washington DC, where the Mind Life Institute presented an annual congress on learning called “Educating World Citizens” which brought together over 2,000 international voices.
The Dalai Lama participated in all [...]

Positive Person: Amanda Harmon, 40, female, Hamilton Heights, Harlem October 4, 2009 2 Comments

She is an old soul with a young spirit who I met at a mutual friend’s cocktail party sometime last year. She and I were hanging out in the kitchen with several others talking about what we “do” – typical cocktail party banter. But when it came to Amanda’s turn to share, she had an [...]

(Not My) Two Dads September 24, 2009 1 Comment

I spent the past weekend in Florida visiting some old and new friends. It was amazing to spend time with Joe and Terry (the old ones) and their two-month old fraternal twins, Ariana Michele and Cruz Aiden (the new ones). How amazing it was to meet these little guys for the first time – [...]