Louis J. Alloro, M.Ed., MAPP

Life & Success Coach

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The product I offer you is the opportunity to create your best self.

What is a coach? 

Just like in little league, a coach is someone to help you get off the sidelines and get back in the game of life. The ultimate goal is to help you take empowered action. It is never too late to do this. Yes, y ou can teach an old dog new tricks!  The dog just needs to want more, want better, and want it now. Yes, this takes work.

Keep in mind, we are not born w ith optimism and resilience. Sonja Lyubomirsky says that 50% of happiness is genetic, 10% is what has happened to you and the remaining 40% is intentional action. As your coach, I will help you design that 40% of intentional action. 

Like physical strength, psychological strength is built over time, with increased endurance and baby steps. We will use a coactive coaching model, which means we will design a process together. To do so, you must come with an open mindset.

Sure, we all have had our own trajectories and life experiences (the past) but we all can create life experiences (the present & future) based on what we want, what we need, and what we value. This is exciting!

I will help you get clear about what you need, what you want, and what you value.  I will help you identify and enable your strengths, clarify your vision, and set SMART© Goals in the direction of your dreams.

This work will require you yield to the past (we can't change what IS).  Our focus, instead, is on the present and future.  How can you get more of what you want in life? More pleasure? More meaning? More engagement?  Greater success?  Life success? Career success? Relationship success? Health success?

We will use cutting edge research coming from the fascinating field of Positive Psychology. Unlike traditional psychology which focues on what’s wrong (the weakness) and how to fix it, we’ll focus on what’s already good (the strength) and how to build it. Even if you think nothing is good, we can figure out a way to alter that belief system and help you see the world with more abundance, more optimism, and with greater resilience.

Keep in mind that Positive Psychology is not all rainbows and sunshine.  It’s about increasing the flexibility and accuracy with which you see the world and your place in it.  It’s about increasing your perspective. I have lots of tools that I'd love to share with you – some of which are even scientifically proven to make you happier.

When people learn empirically validated tools to increase their well-being, including practicing gratitude (Emmons, 2007), using optimism as a psychological stragegy (Seligman, 2007), experiencing flow (Csikszentmihalyi, 1990), savoring (Bryant & Veroff, 2007) and using their signature strengths (Peterson & Seligman, 2004), individuals beneift, and the organizations they comprise too.

I think the best definition of coach is accountability partner – something I have begun calling Social-Emotional Leaders, the people who help us become our best selves. I’d love to be one of those people for you . . . your cheerleader, your truth teller, your possibility generator, your coach.

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TESTIMONIALS

I recently attended a seminar led by a really great speaker, Louis Alloro  M. Ed, MAPP. It was a life altering experience which really helped me stop focusing on my stress (negativity) and look instead for opportunities to be positive. .- Jeremy LeBlanc, Help Desk Manger

I enjoyed your presentation this morning.  I’ve always felt I was an optimistic, positive, “glass-half-full” type of person but definitely saw areas of improvement and where I can take it to a new level. .- Gary Conway, Brooklyn Public Library

A note of thanks for helping me discover my true purpose. With your guidance and support, I learned how to pursue my dreams and discover my purpose in this life. I feel privileged to know you and to have had the opportunity to have you in my corner. By allowing me to witness how you have learned to share your gifts with others, you have helped me to learn how to share my own gifts by enriching the lives of others through my work as an elementary school teacher and my actions as a person in society. Although the journey has been my own, I feel confident that your presence in my life has truly enhanced my journey. For that, I will be eternally grateful. .- Shawn Mazzatta

Just want you to know, first of all, how much your coaching means to me and what a high impact it has had in only the few months we've been working together. Since our call on Tuesday, I have really felt a shift in my presence and awareness in creating what I want in the current moment. I love the technique you taught me - I've used twice since and I am wearing a ring to keep me in check. So far, really good. .- Dave Perel

I am so grateful for your encouragement and your talent as a coach! You were exactly what I needed. Having you by my side helped me find the strength within myself to climb out. I am using the tools you taught me to create goals and daily lists to help me both with my business and personal life. I am surprised at the amount of change that has come about in such a short time. .- Edgar Marroquin

Louis has uncanny interpersonal intelligence, a sharp wit, and a big heart, all of which combine to make him an important member of any team he is a part of. .- Kevin Gillespie

I have worked with Louis on the board of a volunteer organization. I have found him inventive, persistent, and socially intelligent. He is both a great team member and a leader when leadership is required. He takes on big commitments and then keeps them, and he motivates others to take on big challenges. Louis has been a great asset to our board. .- Kathryn Britton

Louis is the consumate professional. His integrity, work ethic and especially his zeal for his work are hallmarks in everything he does. He creates unique solutions to challenges and always involves others. I highly recommend Louis. .- Scott Asalone

Louis has incredible skills and talents that any person, group or organization can benefit greatly from. He's a "doer," meaning that he gets things done. You can depend on him to do what he says he'll do. He's a excellent communicator--clear, concise and responsive. Louis is also generous minded--giving of his time, knowledge and willing to take initiative--remarkable leadership abilities. Louis is also a speedy learner and not afraid to take calcuated risks. He takes on new challenges by learning what he can from all sources and media then courageously applying what he's learned. Then he evaluates the results for more learning. All of which also makes him a great teacher. Finally, he has extraordinary relational skills, building bridges and creating alliances to help things work better for everyone. .- Eleanor Chin

I really enjoyed hearing the seminar on how the power of thinking is a transformative force in our lives. We are continually driven by our emotions and thoughts, whether they be positive or negative, and they frequently drive us to employ worst-case thinking in our decision making. The speaker Louis Alloro was very poised and really engaging to the audience ... I would continue to go to further discussions to hear Mr. Alloro's unique viewpoints which offer a refreshing alternative to main-stream media and other information outlets. .- Simon G.

Interesting subject, great speaker, excellent event! .- Joel E.

“Working with Louis is an amazing and inspirational experience. Louis is a positive, caring, and supportive Life Coach. I am so grateful for his openness, attentiveness, and his ability to really be really present. I would recommend Louis to anyone wanting to grow, expand, and is ready to achieve more in their life.” .- Mary Anne Flanagan

Louis' presentation on Positive Psychology gave me a 360-degree view of the field, leaving me with nuggets of theory and research that has me energized to apply to my own life. I'm sincerely excited to go down this positive path with him! .- Brett Kaplan

I worked with Louis for 3 months and in that time, I lost the job I didn't want to be in, gained the most unbelievable loving and healthy relationship with a man I have ever had, and have been placed in the absolute job of my dreams that fits exactly what my heart, strengths and mind has to offer. I am happy, joyous, and free. I will continue to work with Louis because this is just the beginning. I urge anyone who is fighting the process of life, not satisfied where you are at and just want more of a positive and developed place in the world to work with Louis. He is an EXPERT in human development I put my life in his hands and this is where I am today! .- Dana Barash

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